I found this fascinating quote today:
Unfortunately this is the mindset of our twenty something generation. The girls are having kids younger, and think that because the "daddy" stuck around, they are blessed. Instead of thinking that they deserve someone who loves them, treats them with respect, and is supportive of them, they are grateful for the financial support and think that is the best they get. Mommy Tyme, Mom Has a Voice, Nov 2009
You should read the whole article.